I see what you're getting at and concede that you may be totally right that I'm not on the same page as Parent, but if the reason for not doing something dumb that you'll probably fail at that other people are doing better at, that lets say you also hate, isn't for building a business... What are you doing that for? Pathological self harm?

I think you and I agree. I'm not being crass, but I'd if you had more thoughts on what I'm trying to say about what you're trying to say I'd be interested in further discussion.