Compete with your colleges on who's the better father of his child. You'll destroy them by existing. Now that you won you can stop worrying work and start worrying about parenting. You have 6-7 years of bonding before you are over the golden age of parenting and your child starts to open up to they friends instead of you. You don't have to worry about who know the latest fads in tech but how to behave yourself and show example so that your child wants to talk to you when you get old.