Re:Every action you take is a vote for the type of person yo...
by s1artibartfast on Tuesday August 23, 2022 @03:46PM
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I think you made a false dichotomy between thinking of the future and mindless indulgence.
You can be mindful of who you are and what you want now.
A life of always suffering for tomorrow is arguably as bad as a life of mindless indulgence.
You can get to the end without ever enjoying it.
It is better to not want chips than always want chips and restrain yourself.
It is better to enjoy exercise than suffer through it.
Without being mindful, you'll just have another handful of chips instead of remembering you're trying to be not fat.
Without being mindful, you'll watch another Youtube video instead of doing something on your todo list.
Without being mindful, you'll jerk off instead of reading a book or interacting with another human being.
It's not that doing any of the above is inherently bad in isolation, it's that if you aren't mindful in the aggregate and just default to impulse, you'll find yourself drifting much farther from what you think you will eventually become than you otherwise realize.
We live in a world where distraction and dopamine hits are so accessible (sometimes even out of our control) vs even just 50 years ago, so we find ourselves needing to be more deliberate in our actions.