It seems that this is an issue that is close to your heart ("As a parent ...") so I apologize if this comes off as harsh: you should take a closer look at the assumptions you are making about @larve, a person whom you have never met.

> The problem is that you come across as ...

> And the fact that you do this AGAIN ...

> My experience of people on the spectrum says that the poster ...

I do not know precisely when, but it seems that at some point you started ranting to your child.