hahaha :) fun, I believe I can share the same frustrations with non-programmers, except that I used to learn to make non-programmers viable tools that round-up the programming experience. It means that they can help in more ways than you can imagine as a programmer.

Also I think that using the right tool to plan is very important. The right tool must be something that fits into your routine and thinking more cognitively and intuitively than conceptually.