I think a lot of people wish it was that simple. Instead, the progressive trans movement has crept into sports, prisons, spas, toy aisles, etc. which far fewer people agree on a straightforward answer to. It's unlikely the LGBT agenda will ever focus on something as simple as marriage equality and then be "done", since far too many people are making money on finding new issues to push for.
Like Foley, Hastert, Gaetz, Trump, Roy Moore and Jim Jordan [1]? Or Tucker Carlson's defense of child abuse by cult leader Warren Jeffs [2]?
"Grooming" as used by Republicans today is nothing more than transphobia and homophobia as Republicans try to equate LGBTQ+ people as pedophiles (eg [3]).
If you truly believe that Democrats are tied to grooming and not simply arguing in bad faith (as Ben Shapiro, Tucker Carlson, Matt Walsh or Stephen Crowder routinely do) then I would encourage you to question the propaganda that has so effectively been communicated to you.
[1]: https://slate.com/news-and-politics/2022/04/from-hastert-to-...
[2]: https://www.mediamatters.org/tucker-carlson/unearthed-audio-...
[3]:https://eu.tallahassee.com/story/news/education/2022/06/29/l...
In what way are the goals of identity politics any more clear? Most of the time the only obvious objective is "winning on Twitter".
Occupy didn't have clear goal, but it was dangerous in theory. Letting it simmer could have lead to something more dangerous, a popular movement demanding significant reforms, for example, setting capital gains tax to match income tax. Identity politics in contrast is not dangerous and has no potential to become so.
The agenda for LGBT rights movement? Marriage equality in law. You’ve got a clear goal.
Civil rights movement? Equal suffrage, repeal of discriminatory laws.
You can’t take action when no one is asking for a specific action.