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Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by JJMcJ on Friday July 01, 2022 @05:01PM (#31952855)
Public school socialization.

Humiliated by teachers.

Bullied by some people.

Small circle of friends.

Adults as the enemy.

All the homeschooled kids I've met seem pleasant, polite, comfortable around other kids and around adults. Of course this is Northern California so elsewhere the story may be different.

Oh, and homeschooling is forbidden in Germany, under a 1938 law.

1938. Get it? Nudge, nudge, wink, wink, elbow in the ribs.

Just to see who doesn't like homeschooling.

Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by hnhg on Friday July 01, 2022 @05:32PM (#31953264)
If we're going with full anecdotes, all the homeschooled folks I've had to deal with have had major issues integrating with wider society. I felt a bit sorry for them, even if they weren't always the nicest or well-meaning people to actually be around. But by the time they're a bit older, I guess it's too late.
Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by virissimo on Friday July 01, 2022 @06:00PM (#31953572)
How do you know whether people you've "had to deal with" were homeschooled or not? Might that method result in selection effects?
Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by camjohnson26 on Friday July 01, 2022 @07:35PM (#31954429)
I doubt anyone I work with or meet knows I was homeschooled unless I specifically tell them, and it’s a pretty touchy subject because of the stereotypes people like the parent commenter have. Sounds like textbook survivorship bias, since the only homeschoolers you notice are the ones who are maladjusted. I know many people who were homeschooled and the range of outcomes varies, just like it does for public or private schools.
Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by maroonblazer on Friday July 01, 2022 @09:34PM (#31955189)
Some public school experiences can be great. Some homeschooling experiences can be great. Likewise each can be awful. We need more data.
Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by hnhg on Saturday July 02, 2022 @12:46AM (#31956333)
Agreed. I made my point badly. Data is needed, not anecdotes.
Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by hnhg on Saturday July 02, 2022 @12:45AM (#31956329)
True. They had to tell me. Your points stand: they could very well have been a minor subset of the overall population. But also by the same argument, they could have been 100pct of the population. It's why I mentioned it's all anecdotal. Data is needed.
Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by lern_too_spel on Friday July 01, 2022 @05:38PM (#31953326)
Germany banned homeschooling in 1919. The 1938 law simply standardized the start date and penalties and excluded the disabled. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Schulpflicht
Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by PhantomBKB on Saturday July 02, 2022 @02:13AM (#31956698)
Of course, in the US things are different when it comes to sending kids to school. Where there is the constant danger of being shot at by some psycho.

So it's better if they stay their kids at home.

Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by Barrin92 on Friday July 01, 2022 @08:31PM (#31954809)
I'm German and I'm glad it's forbidden, and not since 1938 but since 1919, and it has its roots not in the Nazi era but in the Prussian system and the European humanist tradition of education which emphasized that education is not just about acquisition of skills, but about civic education, teaching students not just to be pupils but to be democratic citizens and active participants in public life.
Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by zarzavat on Friday July 01, 2022 @09:12PM (#31955044)
> teaching students not just to be pupils but to be democratic citizens and active participants in public life.

The subtext being that homeschooled children grow up into worse citizens than schooled children? What is the basis for that?

Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by Barrin92 on Friday July 01, 2022 @09:41PM (#31955230)
Depends on the motivation but I think there are some straight forward reasons. If the motivation is religious, then withdrawal is the explicit goal. The US say, has a long history of sort of apolitical, religiously secluded parallel communities that are deliberately parochial.

Another reason is that if you're not participating in common institutions you have no stake in them. If everyone goes to the same schools (in Germany the idea of the Volksschule), everyone has to participate in civic discourse about what to teach, how to fund education, and how to maintain equal standards. There is a common fabric and shared reality because everyone shares the same space.

That's obviously not to say that literally every homeschooled person is disinterested in public life, or vice versa but I think it's hard to see many other motivations for homeschooling other than to withdraw for one reason or another.

Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by Dracophoenix on Saturday July 02, 2022 @08:19AM (#31958421)
> Another reason is that if you're not participating in common institutions you have no stake in them.

What's wrong with disassociation as a motivation? In a borderless world I don't see a reason for forced participation in a place that one might not even like. So long as everyone pay their financial debts, how they live their life shouldn't be anyone's business.

Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by rayiner on Friday July 01, 2022 @10:38PM (#31955596)
From what I have been able to piece together about Germans (my wife lived there and we have had several au pairs from there), they don’t understand the situation with religion in America. In Germany, people gradually stopped participating in organized religion, but the social framework has remained largely intact. Last I checked, German public schools are still required to offer religious education under Article 7-3 of the Basic Law.[1]

In the US, secularists have made a concerted effort to scrub every trace of religion out of public life and impose French-style secularism on a country that’s as religious as Poland. And they did that not in the 21st century, but in the 1960s and 1970s, when both Germany and the United States were vastly more religious.

Folks who want to homeschool their kids for religious reasons aren’t the nuts that American media makes them out to be. They’re people who in Germany or Sweden or the Netherlands or many other places would be able to avail themselves of public options that those countries include in the mainstream.

[1] Germany appears much more content to let social mores evolve organically rather than tearing up the social fabric by rushing change. Germany is a much more liberal country than America, but the laws are much more conservative in many ways. A subset of Americans are besides themselves because the Supreme Court overturned a case recognizing a right to abortion until viability (22 weeks). Meanwhile, Schwangerschaftsabbruch I (deeming abortion to be a violation of the Basic Law’s right to life) is still the law in Germany, and decriminalized abortion is permissible only to 12 weeks. Nobody called Angela Merkel a fascist for voting against same sex marriage. Bavaria requires crosses in public buildings and hasn’t been kicked out of the country. Etc.

Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by tptacek on Saturday July 02, 2022 @01:30AM (#31956526)
You (or others reason this thread) would probably be interested in the most recent Serial podcast, "The Trojan Horse Affair", which centers on the intersection of religion and public schooling in Birmingham. Religious education is apparently technically a requirement in the UK as well (though, in many places, perhaps more observed in the breach). If you're Muslim in Birmingham, your public school is probably teaches approximately as much Islam as St. Barnabas taught me Catholicism.

(It doesn't work out great for Birmingham!)

Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by bennysomething on Saturday July 02, 2022 @02:45AM (#31956805)
That was the Blair governments terrible idea to give public funding to all religious schools. Coming from northern Ireland where segregation in schools is pretty fundamental to the divide, I couldn't believe the stupidity in implementing this in England.
Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by zarzavat on Saturday July 02, 2022 @05:07AM (#31957419)
I would go back much further than Blair. The roots of that situation can be found ultimately in the British empire, which lead to the creation of Pakistan and Bangladesh, and immigration from those countries into Britain (notably from Sylhet in the 1970s).

Crucially, South Asian people are endogamous, meaning that they generally prefer to marry within their communities and moreover within the family: cousin marriage is common. So there has been consistent secondary immigration from the subcontinent as South Asians marry spouses from their communities from their countries of origin and bring them to the UK.

The average Bangladeshi or Pakistani citizen's religious views are about as welcome in Britain as the average Briton's secular views would be welcome in Bangladesh. Which is to say that they are disjoint and cannot be reconciled much at all.

Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by tptacek on Saturday July 02, 2022 @12:48PM (#31960553)
I don't know what you're referring to here, but 51% of Wikipedians believe that religious education (of some form) is compulsory in all UK schools.
Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by rayiner on Friday July 01, 2022 @10:23PM (#31955487)
> but about civic education, teaching students not just to be pupils but to be democratic citizens and active participants in public life.

As if that happens in American public schools lol.

Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by tptacek on Saturday July 02, 2022 @01:30AM (#31956530)
It does in some more than in others. Oak Park schools did about as good a job with this as any school could have.
Re:Ask HN: If you’ve considered homeschooling, what’s stoppi... by JJMcJ on Saturday July 02, 2022 @02:08PM (#31961080)
And how did that work out for Germany?

More seriously the Prussian system was created after the Napoleonic Wars to ensure that Prussia had a large reasonably well educated population suitable for warfare and for industry.

That system was enforced in the USA later in the 19th Century.

Read http://www.johntaylorgatto.com/