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A comment on Ask HN: How do you cultivate social skills?.
Then the more open and confident you are about them - the more genuine friends who are happy to share it with you you’ll find.
The goal “make friends” in itself is just a bad, shallow goal. It will not give you energy for real actions on a regular basis.
The attitude “i dont like my shyness” is a bad, weak attitude.
The attitude “f..k you, im shy and im okay with it” is a strong, attractive attitude (without being a jerk of course)
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Then the more open and confident you are about them - the more genuine friends who are happy to share it with you you’ll find.
The goal “make friends” in itself is just a bad, shallow goal. It will not give you energy for real actions on a regular basis.
The attitude “i dont like my shyness” is a bad, weak attitude.
The attitude “f..k you, im shy and im okay with it” is a strong, attractive attitude (without being a jerk of course)