> I think it's a fundamental error to call anything 'our way' or 'their way'. It prevents you - and them - from learning and integrating ideas.

The phrases "our way" and "their way" are neutral. Our way can be better sometimes, not as good other times. And vice versa.

Avoiding common useful simple language can only reduce clarity.

> My way is to avidly learn and use the best ideas I can find, regardless of their source.

Absolutely. "Your way" is good in this instance.