There's no way to argue you out of emotional non-factual convictions like this. This position is built on feelings (& fear), & there's no way I can use reason to convince you of anything other than the "truth" you think you're onto.
Chrome is one of the most transparent & open projects on the planet. They draft, get positons, state intent early & accept open comments- usually with little protest noted- get TAG & security opions proactively... christ its hard to think of bow muchore tbey could do to make do-gooding open.
Apple just makes hardware with bundled software. It has no monopoly to increase its leverage, and stays out of politics for the most part.