Re:Restarting my career after motherhood
by Dracophoenix on Sunday June 05, 2022 @03:04PM
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After reading the article, I don't see what's horrendous about it. Yes, having children has a market effect and is even a market unto itself. There's rarely any controversy to think in terms of the financial costs and legal obligations (or lack thereof) when discussing abortions, adoptions, disinheritance, estrangement, etc. All of these actions are connected by a single thread: Generally speaking, no person is owed anything for merely existing.
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Re:Restarting my career after motherhood
by kelseyfrog on Sunday June 05, 2022 @03:19PM
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It could be a fun exercise to consider why someone might find it horrendous. You know, just to put yourself in someone else's shoes for a bit.
Re:Restarting my career after motherhood
by Dracophoenix on Sunday June 05, 2022 @03:27PM
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Instead of my supposing or assuming, I'd rather you speak for your own position. Pretending to be a different person may be a fun exercise, but it doesn't get me any closer to understanding that person's motives or thoughts as they are.
Re:Restarting my career after motherhood
by kelseyfrog on Sunday June 05, 2022 @05:04PM
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The point behind the exercise is specifically to avoid an oppositional dialogue. It is a way to flex the muscles of empathy and authentically arguing an opposing position is one way to get there. Supposing and assuming is 100% the point. It's a shortcut to the frontiers of one's knowledge.