You're right that the Magic Castle is not about money, it's not that expensive; it's about the average Shmoe getting a night as a high roller. Being invited there is not the defining thing in someone's behavior. It's the fact that people are afforded the opportunity - incredibly rare in society now - to look and act like important people, respected people, and they don't want to mess that up. Clothing's just one part of it. You said you've been forced to dress up... well, that's not the same thing. Not the same thing at all as being excited to look your best. No one forces you to look your best when you want to make an impression.

I always tip well at bars, and I get served well. But that's not the test. The test is walking up unknown to a crowded bar and having the bartender come to you first, knowing you're going to be a good customer. It almost makes you feel the need to tip extra well. And that's what society should be about.

I don't care that flights are cheap. Great. I just want people to live up to that. I don't blame them for being maleducated, but I think they should be educated in showing some class.