Re:Ask HN: Burnt-out, directionless but want to turn it around
by safety1st on Tuesday May 31, 2022 @02:21AM
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It would still make sense to encourage their self esteem, because poor self-esteem is a self reinforcing condition. It negatively affects your mental health, and by extension your job performance and "worth" on the job market.
If a little bit of self delusion is what's required to break that cycle, then it's totally worth it.
Not that I think that's what's going on here. If you read between the lines of the OP it's my opinion that the main issues afflicting them are a poor self-image and bad networking skills. They're likely good enough technically but if they don't address the self talk they may never realize that.
If a little bit of self delusion is what's required to break that cycle, then it's totally worth it.
Not that I think that's what's going on here. If you read between the lines of the OP it's my opinion that the main issues afflicting them are a poor self-image and bad networking skills. They're likely good enough technically but if they don't address the self talk they may never realize that.