How did a home rental company or a media rental company become a tech company?
I'm confused about what you are trying to imply with your question.
Either you are making an argument for "Netflix/AirBnB are considered tech companies, so why not WeWork?". Or you are saying that Netflix/AirBnB aren't actually tech companies? Or are you implying that given enough time, WeWork would have become a tech company, despite its non-technical beginnings?
To compare AirBnB/Netflix to WeWork from a technology standpoint doesn't make any sense IMO.
From what I've seen, you find a charismatic dude with a good story that they probably even believe themselves, and another dude with a lot of money who wants to make that into even more money and you get them together. Then you find more believers.
It's more akin to religion than anything else, but employment seems like the new religion for many - it's certainly an integral part of identity.