A bit of a tangent, but: my wife and I have almost never bought on credit (save for cars, even our current house) - preferring to pay cash, and accept a "lesser" life style. I have taken some kidding about this over the years since we live a modest lifestyle, but in recent years some family and friends finally understand our odd viewpoint on earning and spending.
Our friends bought million-dollar homes they can't afford and now Obama wants the banks to renegotiate and write their loans down. And those who invested conservatively, like myself, get to bail out the banks and, along with them, my profligate friends.
IOW you and I are the suckers in this game. We can be smug about our "wise" choices, but the way this game is playing out, anyone who tried to be fiscally conservative is a loser, and the winners are the spendthrifts.
I'd like to say more, but I've got to go to the hardware store and buy a pitchfork and some torches while I can still afford them.
Don't buy the hype. It has really stressed them, and despite needing that help (value has fallen below their purchase value, that's why they're underwater) they expect to be refused because of how they've been treated.