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Re:When we learn more about a stranger, we feel like they kn... by gunfighthacksaw on Sunday May 22, 2022 @01:15PM (#31470464)
As someone who struggled with and had to ‘first principles’ social skills, I feel this even in many mundane interactions.

People wear masks all the time because sometimes their true self is not conducive to what they are doing at that time.

For a celebrity entertainer who needs to appeal to a crowd of tens of thousands, their Dunbar’s number, even optimistically, will be orders of magnitude smaller.

Therefore, the gap of inner circle-audience will be made up by an act relying on their ability/looks/charm which is necessarily contrived and not reflective of their true self.

Re:When we learn more about a stranger, we feel like they kn... by danschumann on Monday May 23, 2022 @10:39AM (#31479614)
Yeah and the people who seem to have a smaller gap seem to die young. Farley and John Candy were said to be very nice to the "little people".