Hahaha well you sound like an excellent employer. It's not so much that I care in the sense that I'd be embarrassed, but am just scared of losing what is currently desperately needed income. If she had the contact info of just my boss I'd probably text them and be like "Hey you should know about x". But she has the contact info of several coworkers, including female coworkers, and I fear that the discomfort it would cause them could be grounds for firing.