A 4-year-old can run errands alone and not just on reality TV

Re:A 4-year-old can run errands alone and not just on realit... by lb1lf on Wednesday April 20, 2022 @02:53PM (#31101316)

There are exceptions, though. I wound up being a track and field coach for kids aged 6-9 in the local athletic union.

Much to my surprise and delight, the culture from the national association and down is that kids this young will NOT compete in the traditional sense - sure, they may join local games, but the results will not be published in ranked order, and everybody gets a medal.

During training, coaches are encouraged to focus on the competition with oneself - 'Good, you long jumped 3" longer than you've ever done before!' Rather than 'Wow, Anna jumped longer than everybody else!'

It can get serious later on. When they're kids, let them be kids and have fun.

(This, though, is in egalitarian to a tee Scandinavia)

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Re:A 4-year-old can run errands alone and not just on realit... by dataexporter on Thursday April 21, 2022 @04:57PM (#31115080)

Isn't competition with oneself also detrimental at that age? It puts them under the pressure of constant improvement from their previous best. Shouldn't the process be just letting them build a habit/system and enjoy the process rather than focusing on personal records?

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Re:A 4-year-old can run errands alone and not just on realit... by lb1lf on Friday April 22, 2022 @02:53PM (#31126364)

-Oh, anything can be bad if overdone.

What balance we've struck is that coaches keep track of their results - say, to the nearest 4 inches in the long jump pit, we've labeled the edge in 4" increments and see how they fare without making a fuss of it.

Then, at the close of the season, we typically note that everybody has made significant progress, and then it's time for 'Listen, Ken, when we first started outdoor season, you jumped here - and now (big stride!) - now you jump HERE.'

I would be most surprised if any kid felt under pressure to improve from their previous best; however, kids, like adults, tend to like both to make progress and to know that others notice, too.

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Re:A 4-year-old can run errands alone and not just on realit... by sjg007 on Wednesday April 20, 2022 @07:48PM (#31104522)

Yet some in America decry participation trophies and say it is the source of all the problems.

I agree that kids should just be kids and focus on self improvement. It’s why I’ve always liked golf.

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