Re:How can I get my boyfriend to stop digging his tunnel?
by recursive on Wednesday April 20, 2022 @12:00PM
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If it's concerning to you to fill a need with a hobby, then you're probably going to be concerned about most people. What would you say are healthy reasons to engage in a hobby, if there are any?
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Re:How can I get my boyfriend to stop digging his tunnel?
by Adraghast on Wednesday April 20, 2022 @01:44PM
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I’d say any of the top three levels of Maslow’s hierarchy. A hobby that helps you achieve feelings of self-actualization, esteem, and belonging is great.
Things get hairy at that second level. If you feel psychologically unsafe in your day-to-day life, there’s something wrong - either with your environment or the way you perceive it - that a tunnel can’t fix.