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Re:A dirty dish by the sink can be a big marriage problem by the_omegist on Saturday April 16, 2022 @04:34AM (#31050716)
Thanks for the clarification...but you qualifying her demands as "ideals" clearly shows you're taking one of them as being perfect and always-right and the other as needing to be re-educated. This is not a solid foundation for a relationship, to take your house metaphor.

A towel should not be left on the floor, anyone can agree, but on less obvious topics none of them can be credited as the unique source of Truth.

Re:A dirty dish by the sink can be a big marriage problem by mensetmanusman on Saturday April 16, 2022 @09:49AM (#31052297)
I should have noted that they are her ideals, not necessarily yours.

However if you strive to be her ideal man, it’s still worthwhile to know what those are :)