Beginners are going to ask the same questions. Some of them will ask for help rather than read the documentation because they learn better through social interactions than through reading. Some will propose ideas that seem good to them but the community has already found them flawed.
When one reaches the point of being easily irritated by known normal behavior, it is time to get out of there to prevent negative behavior. Take some time off from the mailing list. It sounds like you have at least spent 5 years. It could be longer. Take a break. Rest. Ask others in the community to help out beginners.
Sorry to be so blunt, but that's the point, here. It's fine not to want to help annoying beginner #5,000,000, but it doesn't require being an ass to the community, at large. Just keep your mouth shut, unless you have something nice or helpful to say, please.
In the end, of course, it doesn't help, but it sure feels good to get that out. I'm working on it, because it's not good for the community, but it's hard to avoid sometimes.