Re:A dirty dish by the sink can be a big marriage problem
by cecilpl2 on Thursday April 14, 2022 @12:00PM
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Thank you for saying this. This resonates to a T.
I used to memorize her arguments so that I could use them against her later, only to find that she somehow had another ace up her sleeve. Indefinitely. Leaving me feeling, yet again, like everything was my fault.
My fault for not being understanding enough. My fault for not knowing what she was thinking or going through. My fault for bringing up the issue at the wrong time. My fault for being hurt by her comments or actions.
We separated 4 years ago and she's still telling everyone about how "abusive" I was.
I used to memorize her arguments so that I could use them against her later, only to find that she somehow had another ace up her sleeve. Indefinitely. Leaving me feeling, yet again, like everything was my fault.
My fault for not being understanding enough. My fault for not knowing what she was thinking or going through. My fault for bringing up the issue at the wrong time. My fault for being hurt by her comments or actions.
We separated 4 years ago and she's still telling everyone about how "abusive" I was.