Re:Ask HN: How can I become more proactive in work and life?
by adamhp on Wednesday April 13, 2022 @12:43PM
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I have to second number two. Frame the approach as seeking to learn or understand something, always. You're not seeking to "do" something, because you'll end up "succeeding" or "failing". But whether or not you succeed or fail, you'll learn. So make learning the goal.
1. Write down the fear so you can see it clearly and take control of it.
2. Reframe your action as testing a hypothesis. That way, you know you are on the path to learn something specific.