Re:Ask HN: How can I become more proactive in work and life?
by weavie on Wednesday April 13, 2022 @10:23AM
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Thank you. Yes I think it is something to do with a combination of a lack of motivation and a lack of self belief. If I see something that needs doing, I don't believe in my abilities to address it and so I just let it slide because I assume someone more qualified will deal with it.
Good food for thought.
Re:Ask HN: How can I become more proactive in work and life?
by decafquest on Thursday April 14, 2022 @06:20AM
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I feel you. Been there. Takes time. Check out Garyvee's videos. He's really good! Knowing one's limits (aka self-awareness) is a good first step to overcoming this situation.
For example: I worked with a boss who was a micromanager. When I was first hired I was enthusiastic and ready to grab the bull by the horns. Yet, a few months into the job I simply sat back and did nothing.
On the other hand, when I find an intrinsic motivation (Daniel Vassallo talks about this), I become automatically proactive.
What I'm trying to say is, do some reflection. Are you not proactive because you're simply not motivated enough due to externa or internal reasons? Or are you not proactive because of other factors? This might give you insight into how to tackle the issue.
On the other hand, ask yourself this question: why should you be proactive? Is it an end in itself, or instrumental? If there's no goal that motivates to become proactive then is it really important to be one?
Hope this helps!