Parent: people often complain because it’s the worst they’ve ever had, take it with a pinch of salt.

You: well you can’t complain about anything then can you!?

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You can complain, but it’s good to have an understanding of what you’re complaining about, the parent is right. We are quick to complain about imperfection when a lot of what we have is truly quite good.

Sometimes it’s legitimate criticism, sometimes it’s being spoiled.

Any criticism that is not specific can (and probably should) be dismissed outright. Complaints and criticism should always be specific.