You dont know how many doctors feel trapped by their profession. My ex didnt get mental help because it would stop her getting residencies.

Doctors, like DoD/contractors, Bankers, anything hi paying really; give their lives to their job. That includes limiting what they do at home, where they travel, who they speak too, how they act "out of the office".

Getting a career or sticking to a career are not indicative of happiness, security, or comfort.