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Re:I thought I’d have accomplished a lot more today and also... by Draiken on Thursday April 07, 2022 @08:33AM (#30943586)
Genuine question: how do you find these goals in the first place?

Do you just randomly put them out there and work for it so you can tick that checkbox?

Take for example starting a company. I had that goal before and today I know that'd take an enormous amount of effort and would take me away from my family and the few hobbies I have. All that doesn't guarantee I can make it, since the majority of companies fail and luck plays a huge factor there.

I could set that as a goal, but is it worth it?

Most people I talk to when we dive into why they set a particular goal for themselves, it comes down to a childhood dream or something set by society. That's why I don't see the point.

Re:I thought I’d have accomplished a lot more today and also... by auto on Thursday April 07, 2022 @09:38AM (#30944268)
Another key aspect you need to consider is that (pseudoscience/hand-waving incoming) your brain is very good at taking all of your prior experience and extrapolating it forward, and telling you "if you do this thing, this will be the outcome".

My point is, you're not considering all of the things you don't know, because you can't. It isn't just about "start a company that will probably fail based on the % of companies that actually succeed". It's about "who will I meet while trying to start the company, that could turn into a life long friend", or "what skills do I know so little about that I'll be required to exercise while starting my company that may blossom into a passion I never knew about", or "what sort of example could I be setting for my kids/family/friends who might be on the fence in regards to taking their own leaps of faith"?

We're all too quick to assume we know the outcome of things, and we too easily forget the crazy, spontaneous circumstances of our youth that grew out into huge parts of our lives; that possibility doesn't go away when you're older, it's just most people tend to stop letting their lives have any risk or slack in them that could introduce those sorts of catalyst events.

Re:I thought I’d have accomplished a lot more today and also... by Draiken on Thursday April 07, 2022 @09:50AM (#30944398)
I had never really thought about it in that sense. This is a very interesting take that honestly made me a bit emotional.

Thank you for this.

Re:I thought I’d have accomplished a lot more today and also... by auto on Thursday April 07, 2022 @10:09AM (#30944622)
Don't mention it, just glad to help!
Re:I thought I’d have accomplished a lot more today and also... by hugozap on Thursday April 07, 2022 @08:49AM (#30943738)
I think it happens organically, you start increasing your sphere of influence in some area and with some audience and gradually those goals kind of emerge as natural steps.