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Re:Choose your status game wisely by f0e4c2f7 on Friday April 01, 2022 @05:14PM (#30883374)
Sometimes you see articles like this that insist that you have to play a status game of some kind etc etc. The hacker in me sees that as even more reason to look for examples of ways alleviate myself of such nonsense.

If you read books like "Surely you're joking Mr. Feynman" you run across stories of him playing with Status games and poking fun at them. Though I'm sure one could argue Feynman had status games he played in his own way.

In any case thats always the attitude I've preferred to take towards status. I just don't know how anyone can take themselves so seriously in a world where the highest paid and smartest among us wear rainbow hats with propellers.

Don't take life so seriously and goof around a little more. Thats how you turn up interesting ideas anyway, not by playing status games.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by kansface on Friday April 01, 2022 @06:52PM (#30884119)
Somewhat ironically, refusing to acknowledge or honor conventional status games is itself a status increasing play among hackers, which invalidates the spirit of the advice if not the advice itself! This is also probably terrible advice for a different milieu.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by Daishiman on Saturday April 02, 2022 @08:33PM (#30893013)
As you get older, you find that the active refusal of status games as a countercultural ploy just gets tired and makes you seen a someone hard to deal with. Learn to dress well and talk well to play the game, then be able to revert to your own self with no shame.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by tomgp on Saturday April 02, 2022 @09:05AM (#30887939)
yeah, you assert your status by being able to ignore cultural/office norms.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by Daishiman on Saturday April 02, 2022 @08:33PM (#30893018)
That generally will make you look like an asshole and can be a substantial career stopper.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by YawningAngel on Friday April 01, 2022 @05:21PM (#30883433)
It seems strange to me to use a Nobel prize-winning physicist as an example of someone who didn't play status games
Re:Choose your status game wisely by planetsprite on Friday April 01, 2022 @05:54PM (#30883726)
Feynman's secret is that he was a legitimate super-genius with the charisma of a normal guy who happened to luck into all his achievements. In reality it couldn't be farther from the truth, but there's nothing more appealing to an average person than an exceptional person who gives the impression that being like him is achievable.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by watwut on Saturday April 02, 2022 @05:03AM (#30886855)
Feynman was not really framing himself as normal guy who happened to luck into achievements. Nor came accriss as one. His writings are very carefully written and makes you know and feel he is awesome. The way he describes his own dialogs with others also let's everyone know he is super smart and awesome.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by codeyperson on Friday April 01, 2022 @10:20PM (#30885335)
Feynman’s thoughts on the Nobel prize: https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=vvrdJXRe5KE

But I’m sure he secretly enjoyed the praise somewhat.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by NewEntryHN on Saturday April 02, 2022 @10:21AM (#30888486)
He played the science game and was so good at he obtained a Nobel Prize.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by AussieWog93 on Saturday April 02, 2022 @06:51AM (#30887232)
>Don't take life so seriously and goof around a little more. Thats how you turn up interesting ideas anyway, not by playing status games.

Reading your comment, it sounds like you've got a decent amount of social status without needing to explicitly pursue it.

While that's great for you, don't forget that for others, increased status can mean:

- No longer being treated like shit by people who get away with it

- A social circle that doesn't constantly try to take advantage of you

- Security in your job, as well as greater opportunities for promotion

- Positive attention from the opposite sex

- Peer acceptance for your children

Re:Choose your status game wisely by sombremesa on Saturday April 02, 2022 @10:15AM (#30888445)
This is a very interesting comment. At first I found myself in strong agreement with GP (believing people chasing status are probably misguided), but after reading your comment I realized that it might have to do with my current status (independently wealthy in a first world country).

In places like China or India, there is indeed a very big difference in QoL between those who have status and/or social power and those who do not.

That being said, it might be better to change your environment (and the people who you surround yourself with), because that will change your status as TFA outlines — without you having to go out of your way to change who you are and what you do.

Easier said than done when this involves changing countries, but it's a long-term strat.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by AussieWog93 on Saturday April 02, 2022 @03:40PM (#30891050)
>Easier said than done when this involves changing countries, but it's a long-term strat.

Independent of changing countries, this can be hard to do. Changing peer groups means being accepted by the new group you want to join. For example (within a first-world country), a lower middle-class person looking to join an upper middle-class group will find that they have the wrong taste in clothes, food, books and films, live in the wrong postcode and most likely not have the economic means to "keep up with the Joneses" the way upper middle-class people do.

God knows what someone from, say, the tribal regions of Pakistan would need to do to be accepted as middle-class in a first-world country. It's more than a plane ticket - it's a complete lack of exposure to Western media/culture.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by makeitdouble on Saturday April 02, 2022 @02:08AM (#30886172)
IMO the point of the article is you're playing a status game either way.

> the highest paid and smartest among us wear rainbow hats with propellers.

It works because they enjoy status from performance and accomplishments. Also suiting up often becomes a negative sign in our circles, and getting away with rough presentation can be a sign of status.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by brandall10 on Saturday April 02, 2022 @10:38AM (#30888614)
Dressing down and/or breaking social norms is another type of status flex - it's because you're a high paid engineer working at a top tech company that you can more or less do whatever you want in a way a more typical employee couldn't, or couldn't without being taken seriously.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by wowokay on Friday April 01, 2022 @06:02PM (#30883784)
I agree. I can understand that the article is focused on pointing out that everyone seems status in some way or another, but I think it is fair to say that somethings shouldn’t really be considered status. Working for money, fame, influence. Those are pursuits some people have no interest in, I don’t think it’s fair to say someone who cares about their family, or hanging out with friends view those activities with the same lust people chasing money, power, etc, do. Maybe there is more to be said about how individuals view their “status” pursuits then labeling everyone as animals pursuing status.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by Invictus0 on Friday April 01, 2022 @05:21PM (#30883436)
> rainbow hats with propellers

Would you call such a thing a status symbol? Something glorified in certain circles and disregarded in others?

The author clearly explained that removing yourself from status games just ends up putting you in a different status game (his metalhead days).

The reality is that you have many statuses irrespective of whether you want it or not merely as a function of being in a group. I suppose by not being in any groups you would accrue status among people that value that too.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by sacrosancty on Friday April 01, 2022 @05:22PM (#30883442)
Status usually represents having done some social good. The more good you do, the higher your status. If you look at it as a measure of how much good a person has done, then it might not seem so contemptable. Who did more good for more people - a hermit or Bill Gates?
Re:Choose your status game wisely by pdonis on Friday April 01, 2022 @06:56PM (#30884148)
> Status usually represents having done some social good.

For whatever value of "good" applies in that particular social network, yes. But that value of "good" might not be anything we would call "good" in ordinary language.

For example, Bill Gates does have high status, but he has it because he is rich, not because of the particular things he did that made him rich. Those things happened to be reasonably beneficial (how much so depends on your opinion of Windows and Microsoft, and opinions on that can...vary), but many other rich people got that way by doing things that were not. Yet they still get status according to their wealth.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by darkerside on Saturday April 02, 2022 @12:20AM (#30885817)
People make money by providing value to other people. The people who provide the most perceived value have the most money. It is a signifier of status whether you like it or not.

Most people who make money are providing a service to many people, or to someone else with a lot of money (who therefore provided value previously). Care to provide a counterexample?

Re:Choose your status game wisely by klyrs on Saturday April 02, 2022 @01:03AM (#30885959)
Bain Capitol is a classic example. They bought companies, sold off their assets, wrote themselves huge bonuses, bankrupted the companies, and wrote them off as losses to avoid paying taxes on any of the above. They made their money by destroying value, not providing any.

And then there's multigenerational wealth. Rich brats don't provide intrinsic value, but they're born rich. They don't get that way by providing value. Their ancestors may have stolen their wealth, so they didn't get there by providing value either.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by SubuSS on Saturday April 02, 2022 @02:35PM (#30890531)
Why rule out the rich kids so glibly?

Wealth preservation is something that doesn’t get talked about - imo this is what the rich kids should be schooled in assuming they aren’t good enough to multiply their wealth like Elon. They keep it together for a future generation to take advantage of.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by darkerside on Sunday April 03, 2022 @12:24AM (#30894424)
Value that was created in the past is still value, is it not? Parent post created a conflated straw man of ancestors stealing wealth plus inheritance. So what if you are rich because your parents created value? Did the value they created die with them?
Re:Choose your status game wisely by klyrs on Sunday April 03, 2022 @01:40AM (#30894748)
> Value that was created in the past is still value, is it not?

That's your claim, not ours. Cotton plantation owners made obscene profits from the literal blood of slaves. Did the plantation owners create the value? No, the slaves did. Did the slaves enjoy multiple generations of exponential growth of their net worth? No, the plantation owners were paid reparations, and the slaves got nothing. Descendents of plantation owners are strongly represented in Southern business and politics to this very day. Not because their ancestors made value but because they took it.

You seem to confuse "money" with "value."

Re:Choose your status game wisely by darkerside on Sunday April 03, 2022 @09:21AM (#30896695)
> Did the plantation owners create the value? No, the slaves did.

I am 100% against slavery, period.

Who invented the incandescent lightbulb and the iPhone? The mass market automobile? Who built the railroads? None of these things can be fully credited to the small number of people at the top of the corporations responsible, but we can say fairly confidently they wouldn't have happened without a visionary leader aggregating the efforts of many into a final product.

I agree slaves were deprived of freedom and wages, which is not right. And that wealth is stolen.

That is different from the fact that it's been passed down through generations. I don't quarrel with the children of entrepreneurs having wealth passed down in the same way.

Conflating two arguments makes discussion more difficult.

Money and value are directly related. Money is just score keeping for value created. People pay money for things they value. That's not always going to be the case, but I think treating it as a rule with exceptions is a better heuristic than... what is your definition of value versus money?

Re:Choose your status game wisely by klyrs on Sunday April 03, 2022 @02:24PM (#30899327)
Money can be used to measure value. If I offer you a billion dollars to chop off your arm and eat it raw, then your response to that offer indicates to me how much you value your health. But, if I'm a trillionaire, that billion dollars represents 0.1% of my total wealth, so the marginal cost to me is negligable. The perceived value of a dollar is proportional to the observer's wealth. Are they related? Sure, but it's way more complicated than that.

> Money is just score keeping for value created.

Yes and no. It's way more complicated than that. As demonstrated with the slavery example (nobody accused you of being pro-slavery, please chill), money is often score-keeping for handling money. People with power who participate in large transactions take a cut for themselves. In the case of slavery, the plantation owners got rich by what we consider outright theft today. Money and power follows their descendants, and for what? Did they create value? No, they're just rich off the proceeds of slavery.

Take Mozilla for example: developers are, by and large, the greatest value-creators at the company. So why does Mitchell Baker make $2.5M a year? What great value is she creating? Is she secretly an honest-to-goodness 10x developer? I see no evidence of such -- but because she's closest to the money, she makes decisions about the money, and folks at the board (who are, typically, CEOs at other orgs) agree that people who are closest to the money deserve to get the most money. In this example, the accumulation of wealth is not a record of created value but it's a record of power.

My definition of value is rather irrelevant. There is no universal definition, and I'd say that any precise definition is flawed. Especially one so simple as "value == money".

Re:Choose your status game wisely by darkerside on Sunday April 03, 2022 @03:47PM (#30899970)
A flawed definition is superior to the absence of one.

You don't think the CEO of Mozilla is providing value?

I realize I'm sitting in idealistic terms, and it's to describe a point of view I'm not sure you fully understand. But at this point, I don't think it's that you don't understand it, you just don't care for the framework I'm describing. Perhaps you feel it's not important or useful to your life. I have found it to be a helpful lens, while certainly not all encompassing of the truth.

I had a more nuanced point I was going to make about slavery, hence the preface, but I realized it was probably not the right time or place.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by klyrs on Monday April 04, 2022 @12:27PM (#30908542)
> A flawed definition is superior to the absence of one.

I wholly disagree. According to the money=value definition, if I sell identical items at two prices, the one with the higher price is the better value. This is patently stupid. And people fall for it in droves, so I think it's dangerously stupid.

> You don't think the CEO of Mozilla is providing value?

In my personal opinion, I think she's driving the ship to ground; I'm fairly convinced that actions by the company under her watch have steeply reduced the value of the company. But, that isn't really what I said previously: I question if she's providing 10x the value of a senior developer -- this is a general question applicable to most executive salaries today. In the money=value paradigm, she's being paid that much and therefore she's obviously that valuable. Which, I hope you see why I think that's laughably foolish.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by darkerside on Saturday April 02, 2022 @07:18AM (#30887345)
I remember the hysteria about vulture capitalism. Even vultures play a valuable role in their ecosystem. Companies don't sell themselves to a private equity shop because they are thriving and healthy. If they were more valuable in parts than their sum, it says something about the company.

Can't say much about the hypothetical wealth stealing since it's completely hypothetical.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by klyrs on Saturday April 02, 2022 @01:13PM (#30889853)
"It says something about the company" might be a moral salve in your eyes, but you have not established that they provide value to anybody but themselves. Specifically: how does pilfering pension funds, and then declaring bankruptcy provide "value" in any meaningful sense? It provides greater wealth to the already filthy-rich and destroys the considerable investment that life-long workers have earned, sending those who would be retiring comfortably into poverty -- which then taxes the public support systems. A huge negative for hundreds or thousands of people, for what? A marginal increase in wealth for the already wealthy. Where's the value?
Re:Choose your status game wisely by AussieWog93 on Saturday April 02, 2022 @04:00PM (#30891212)
>pilfering pension funds, and then declaring bankruptcy

That's a bit of a straw man there.

The classic target for these corporate raiders is a business whose capital (real estate, equipment, IP etc.) is worth more than the total market cap of the business itself (which, for most established businesses is a proxy for profit).

In this way, the typical corporate raider buys up a business who is using a valuable asset inefficiently, sells their capital to other businesses who can make more productive use of it, and line their pockets with the value differential they created.

In the process, they'll generally fuck over a whole lot of workers, but there is real economic value (not necessarily social good) in this process of capital redistribution.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by pdonis on Sunday April 03, 2022 @01:04AM (#30894615)
> That's a bit of a straw man there.

No, it isn't. See below.

> In the process, they'll generally fuck over a whole lot of workers

The only way they can do that, since the workers' pensions were an obligation of the company that got broken up, is to declare that company bankrupt and void the obligation. But bankruptcy is not supposed to be a way to make money by voiding a company's obligations and then selling off its capital. The net value of the company is its assets minus its obligations; the process of cashing out the company should involve paying the obligations, not voiding them.

> there is real economic value (not necessarily social good) in this process of capital redistribution

Now who is using a straw man? Again, the "economic value" in a company is its assets minus its obligations. Cashing in on the assets while voiding the obligations is not creating "real economic value". It's stealing it from the people to whom the obligations were owed.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by AussieWog93 on Sunday April 03, 2022 @01:37AM (#30894739)
It's a straw man because literally nobody here was arguing that there is value created in the nullification of employee pensions.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by klyrs on Sunday April 03, 2022 @01:45AM (#30894769)
No, it's absolutely not a straw man. The destroyed pensions are theft, which must appear on the balance sheet when you claim that vulture capitalism creates value. The loss of pension has direct impact on those owed: they are being deprived of money that they earned by providing value.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by AussieWog93 on Sunday April 03, 2022 @02:47AM (#30894986)
>No, it's absolutely not a straw man.

I repeat: nobody was arguing that people losing their pensions was a good thing. Nobody. Absolutely nobody. Literally no-one.

I don't even know what you're referencing, or how it's even possible for Private Equity to pilfer workers' pension funds. If anything, it's the funds themselves that own/invest in Private Equity.

Yet still, you and the other poster have brought it up as if stealing pension funds (how?) is somehow "what Private Equity does".

You might as well be arguing that Private Equity destroys value because it's immoral to fuck a dog. I'm sure Carl Icahn-esque character has tried it before.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by klyrs on Sunday April 03, 2022 @02:04PM (#30899171)
No, you claimed that wealth is proof of created value. I'm refuting that with counterexamples.

As for how pension heists are accomplished, read up: https://sandiegofreepress.org/2012/07/how-mitt-romney-drove-...

Re:Choose your status game wisely by uhuhoo on Saturday April 02, 2022 @03:17AM (#30886433)
Bill Gates? This obviously depends on your opinion of Microsoft, but some of us still remember IE.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by darkerside on Saturday April 02, 2022 @11:45AM (#30889073)
I get some of us don't like him, but nobody has done more to popularize personal computing. That is value creation whether you like it or not.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by hallway_monitor on Friday April 01, 2022 @07:53PM (#30884535)
I think maybe GP was talking about what Bill Gates chose to do with his money and influence once he had them. In terms of the number of lives saved and improved, Bill Gates has had more impact than most of us could ever hope to.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by pdonis on Friday April 01, 2022 @08:26PM (#30884737)
> In terms of the number of lives saved and improved

But Bill Gates did that after he already had status. He didn't gain status by doing that.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by gumby on Saturday April 02, 2022 @01:50AM (#30886111)
He was trying to launder his reputation after all the stuff that came out in the trials, his connections to Epstein (which went back to before E’s first arrest) etc.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by rootusrootus on Friday April 01, 2022 @09:39PM (#30885140)
Arguably he did gain status. He did just what the writer of the article suggested. Instead of putting all of his effort into 'richest person in the world' status, he picked another thing to be high status in. Seems to have worked. He's not the richest guy in the world any more (admittedly he ain't far off, either), but he's arguably worth more respect than Bezos or Musk. Unless you're against microchips in vaccines, of course.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by bigiain on Friday April 01, 2022 @11:25PM (#30885607)
There’s no doubt Mackenzie Scott has gained a huge amount of status through how she’s dealt with acquiring enormous wealth. For me at least, she has way more respect than Gates Bezos and Musk combined…
Re:Choose your status game wisely by burntoutfire on Saturday April 02, 2022 @04:23AM (#30886696)
Whatever positive effect his philantropy has, it has to be offset by the damage he's done to the world, by slowing down progress (famous asshole predatory behaviour of MS of the nineties) in order to make his money in the first place. Only then we can try to assess if Bill Gates' overall impact on the world was actually positive.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by leaflets2 on Sunday April 03, 2022 @10:47AM (#30897308)
Just noting that apparently you're assuming that another company, who had been there instead of MS, would have acted in better ways

Looking at Apple, Oracle, Google etc -- how likely does that seem

Re:Choose your status game wisely by csee on Friday April 01, 2022 @08:34PM (#30884785)
Mafia bosses have high status in their orbit, so yes.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by abhaynayar on Friday April 01, 2022 @10:23PM (#30885348)
> how much so depends on your opinion of Windows

It depends on the version of Windows as well.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by lordnacho on Friday April 01, 2022 @05:30PM (#30883509)
His kids will have higher status than most people, what did they do?
Re:Choose your status game wisely by FredPret on Friday April 01, 2022 @08:40PM (#30884811)
They inherited the DNA of a guy who did lots of good, thus leading our lizard brains to suppose that they, too, have potential
Re:Choose your status game wisely by solarmist on Saturday April 02, 2022 @02:16AM (#30886202)
No way. Status is a proxy for access to resources. It has NOTHING to do with doing good by it’s nature. The doing good thing is a VERY recent phenomenon (like within living memory).
Re:Choose your status game wisely by lambdasquirrel on Saturday April 02, 2022 @01:01AM (#30885948)
For sure. But have you worked at any non-profits? Most of the folks I know who do have a hard time, to put it mildly.

I've done my share of social-good tech companies, as well as engineer's dream-job stuff. After reflecting on this article, I realized that:

1. I finally enjoy my tech job after I stopped chasing the status game in tech.

2. I finally enjoy my hobbies after I stopped chasing the status game in those hobbies too!

I wish things were different on the social-good front. I just try to do good whenever I can in the regular day-to-day world, plus some donations here and there.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by sacrosancty on Monday April 11, 2022 @04:31PM (#30994527)
Probably most of the social good you do is the paid work for your tech job. Unless you work at some social-harm-causing company. Giving to charity is nothing compared to giving up most of your life's limited capacity to do high-value productive work. It's easy to forget that work is mostly really really good for the people you're doing the work for or their customers or someone down the chain who's ultimately paying you.
Re:Choose your status game wisely by joshuacc on Friday April 01, 2022 @06:16PM (#30883879)
Many cultures and religions would say that the hermit did, or at least might have. :)
Re:Choose your status game wisely by kyawzazaw on Saturday April 02, 2022 @01:49PM (#30890142)
> where the highest paid and smartest among us wear rainbow hats with propellers.

Are you sure about this though? It seems like you are referring to a bunch of Software Engineers. That's nowhere near wealthiest.

Re:Choose your status game wisely by adewinter on Friday April 01, 2022 @08:50PM (#30884872)
"status games" might be in the same class of things as "don't think about x". Even by not playing... You're just playing on a different level (lower or higher).