Then there was the legal over-reach. This isn't a dictatorship; it's the rule of law. People in power don't get to just issue orders; they have to have the authority to issue those orders. A lot of people giving orders didn't seem to care. Worse, they didn't even seem to understand the concept of limited government. They just acted like they could order whatever they wanted. Well, in a country where a fair number of people actually care about freedom and limited government, of course there's going to be pushback.
It is interesting that both the legislature and the voters seemed largely willing to accept government by executive order (and sometimes bizarre orders as you note) for much of the pandemic.
a. All gatherings with members of other households are prohibited in the Region except as expressly permitted herein.
b. All individuals living in the Region shall stay home or at their place of residence except as necessary to conduct activities associated with the operation, maintenance, or usage of critical infrastructure, as required by law, or as specifically permitted in this order.
h. Nothing in this Order prevents any number of persons from the same household from leaving their residence, lodging, or temporary accommodation, as long as they do not engage in any interaction with (or otherwise gather with) any number of persons from any other household, except as specifically permitted herein
https://www.gov.ca.gov/wp-content/uploads/2020/12/12.3.20-St...
Let's be honest, your statement of "For me it was a shock to see the power the state had or at least claimed to have over my life." can apply to all of our politicians of both parties at every level.
I think the criticism can be leveled at both parties for different issues. That said, I think it is defeatist to simply say all politicians are the same. Parties perform differently on different issues, and some politicians perform better across multiple issues.
People still almost all the actual power. They voluntarily give most of it up. The state is relatively impotent and can only make an example of a few people at a time.
Sodomy laws were finally ruled unconstitutional in 2003, nullifying the laws still on the books in the remaining states:
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sodomy_laws_in_the_United_St...
Interesting to think that of what covid response rhetoric would look like applied to the aids epidemic.
EG we don't let possible disease spreaders eat together, so why would we let to consenting adult vectors have sex.
https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2021/04/full-st...
The most egregious claim was that for a period of time it was illegal to voluntarily associate with others in their private residence for a completely consensual encounter.
Most law enforcement agencies and many individuals ignored this policy, but the fact that the governor claimed the authority for such a restriction still infuriates me.