Re:Ask HN: If you used to be socially awkward and shy, how d...
by tyroh on Saturday March 26, 2022 @08:06PM
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Surround yourself with good supportive people and avoid those who put you down.
In my younger years, you can't avoid the people who tend to project their insecurities on you: bullies, primadonnas, etc. Schools and workplaces are mixed bags, where often people make friends based on superficial characteristics.
Places where I found supportive people:
* Startup scene
* Church groups
* Tech groups
* Mentorship groups
These folks helped me see life in a more balanced way. People aren't out to get you, they are just thinking about how others think about themselves. Same as you.
In my younger years, you can't avoid the people who tend to project their insecurities on you: bullies, primadonnas, etc. Schools and workplaces are mixed bags, where often people make friends based on superficial characteristics.
Places where I found supportive people: * Startup scene * Church groups * Tech groups * Mentorship groups
These folks helped me see life in a more balanced way. People aren't out to get you, they are just thinking about how others think about themselves. Same as you.