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Re:The Wisdom in Kung Fu Panda by vaidhy on Wednesday March 23, 2022 @11:49AM (#30779718)
There is a different way to think about this - The problem is the worrying, not that you can live on air or universe juice. Even Buddha needs food, water and shelter.

The problem as you correctly put is that people worry, but that does not lead to a solution. There is really no point in worrying - if you cannot change something, why worry about it? If you can change it, why worry? You might have to think deeply about how to change it and act on it, but just worrying is like praying - it gives an semblance of action without actually doing anything.

The hamster, the wheel and the cage are illusions. We choose certain things as more important to us than others. You can always quit and walk out, but a lot of times we prioritize our comfort, an (illusory) stable earnings etc. over freedom.

Re:The Wisdom in Kung Fu Panda by brightball on Wednesday March 23, 2022 @11:58AM (#30779837)
“Worrying is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do but it doesn’t get you anywhere.” - Van Wilder
Re:The Wisdom in Kung Fu Panda by dTal on Thursday March 24, 2022 @06:36AM (#30788093)
>There is really no point in worrying - if you cannot change something, why worry about it? If you can change it, why worry?

Worrying clearly has a function, or else we would not have evolved to do so. Worrying motivates action - it is a countervailing force to laziness. Worrying draws conscious and subconscious attention to problems that need solving. It is necessary, like pain. How do you know you can't change something without thinking about it? Why would you think about it if you weren't worried about it?

I charitably interpret all the anti-worrying propaganda as an exhortation to try and maintain worry as a transient state that goes away when you commit to a course, as opposed to an ongoing coping mechanism.

Re:The Wisdom in Kung Fu Panda by lapitopi on Wednesday March 23, 2022 @01:26PM (#30780960)
I'm currently reading Thich Nhat Hanh's Peace Is Every Step [0]. In it he says something similar. It's not that worrying is not useful. You need to worry for sustenance, shelter. But a lot of thinking that we as modern humans do is useless. Me going over over on why I didn't get that job, or why did my colleague say or ..., you get the idea. Mindfulness can help with this a bit where if you find yourself caught in a useless thought loop, you can step back and try to figure out if you do have agency, if not, just move on.

[0] https://www.amazon.com/Peace-Every-Step-Mindfulness-Everyday...

Re:The Wisdom in Kung Fu Panda by spc476 on Wednesday March 23, 2022 @07:07PM (#30784714)
My three rules of worrying:

1. Can I do something about it right now? If so, do it, and stop worrying.

2. Can I do something about it later? If so, wait til later, do it, and stop worrying.

3. There is nothing I can do. If so, there's nothing to worry about because I can't do anything about it.

Re:The Wisdom in Kung Fu Panda by UncleOxidant on Wednesday March 23, 2022 @12:01PM (#30779863)
> people worry, but that does not lead to a solution.

Jesus said, "who of you by worrying can add one moment to their lifespan?" (or in another saying "...add one inch to their stature?")

Re:The Wisdom in Kung Fu Panda by pdimitar on Wednesday March 23, 2022 @10:29PM (#30785843)
Yep, I like that point of view as well. I guess we should all work on removing anxiety from our brains as much as we can.