Re:Teaching is a slow process of becoming everything you hate
by Jensson on Saturday March 12, 2022 @06:58PM
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This isn't about "other peopke" though, recognising that your own parents are bad parents is very important, not sure why you try to dismiss that. People telling you that you are wrong, your parents actually did good, is just gaslighting and damaging.
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Re:Teaching is a slow process of becoming everything you hate
by nradov on Saturday March 12, 2022 @09:05PM
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You seem to have a very distorted view. Have you considered the possibility that those people aren't gaslighting you, and that they might be correct?
Re:Teaching is a slow process of becoming everything you hate
by shkkmo on Saturday March 12, 2022 @11:12PM
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Have you spent much time interacting with children of abusive parents? I encourage you to go do some research a learn how bad it can get and how difficult it can be for them to struggle towards acknowledging and coming to terms with that abuse.