Re:You are not your name (2015)
by _carbyau_ on Tuesday March 08, 2022 @05:48PM
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I agree with you however there is the point of the person in question having already established themselves.
The new friend with the once-tainted name already has a personality/life-experience they can use to enforce your new view of that name.
A new baby has no self identity as yet and will be largely shaped by the parental interactions. As a parent, I didn't want my poor perception of a name to negatively affect in any minute conscious or unconscious way how I interact with my newborn child.
Extreme? Yeah. But parents tend to get a bit extreme on some aspect or other when it comes to their kids and I figured that - as you say - it's just a name. If my extreme is to simply rule out names I don't like, then that's not so bad.
The new friend with the once-tainted name already has a personality/life-experience they can use to enforce your new view of that name.
A new baby has no self identity as yet and will be largely shaped by the parental interactions. As a parent, I didn't want my poor perception of a name to negatively affect in any minute conscious or unconscious way how I interact with my newborn child.
Extreme? Yeah. But parents tend to get a bit extreme on some aspect or other when it comes to their kids and I figured that - as you say - it's just a name. If my extreme is to simply rule out names I don't like, then that's not so bad.