There exist for everyone a hypothetical black man on a spectrum from Ice Cube in "Are We There Yet" to Ice Cube in "Straight outta Compton". If you see this hypothetical person coming towards you, you will feel uncomfortable because your reptile brain wants you keep you alive.
Everyone's lived experience is different. Everyone is entitled to a version of Ice Cube that scares them and the freedom to not associate with the people who they don't trust. Everyone is entitled to think a self-diagnosed mental disorder is disgusting and steals light from the actually afflicted.
Most opinions are not based on "lived experiences", but journalism and movies. They will select the pattern for you.
We still need to remind the lemming that pattern recognition isn't the boogieman that pop culture makes it out to be.
The weak-man fallacy: https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/05/12/weak-men-are-superweap...