Second this comment - notion would win for me hands down if it wasn't slow. Unfortunately I don't have the capital or desire to upgrade to an M1 to fix notion. So maybe when I eventually upgrade my system it will be my go to. Fingers crossed.
I had a similar feeling a while ago - but revisited Notion after a year or so and they've made a lot of speed improvements to it!
A couple of months ago, I got a Apple M1 and a lot of these electron apps load much snappier. (Slightly impractical fix)
I’m interested to try Google’s new tables product when I get a chance.