"hey I'm thinking of making this project, do you think you'd use it?" // "Yeah sure, seems helpful I guess"
you have:
"hey, person who told me they'd use this, here's the latest update where I've implemented X feature you and some others requested, I also am trialing Y feature that I think might be cool, and I polished Z item that I saw some others were getting hung up on, do you mind trying the latest version out and letting me know what you think?"
If you're unable/unwilling to maintain those kinds of relationships/conversations over the long term, consider a PM.
Not quite: saying you'd buy something and actually forking over the cash are two very different things. I've expressed interest in many a project that—when actually made available—I decided I didn't really need after all.
Is it always practical to actually sell a not-yet-existing product? No. But do you get the same data from just talking to people? Not at all.
So for example you can ask them this:
"Give me your honest answer. Let's say I had the product ready and finished and perfected right now... would you or would you not buy it from me?"
You really need to drive at this, you don't need to actually "sell" it. Validating an idea isn't a casual thing, but you don't have to go as far as actually selling it.
It is totally possible to get these real answers out of people. Your human, they're human and are able to simulate hypotheticals quite accurately if the simulation is framed correctly.
In fact I find it highly highly mistaken to think that it is fundamentally impossible for humans to answer that question.