At the scale that something like IntelliJ or your favourite C++ based IDE operate at, Java is not the bottleneck. It’s all down to the system complexity involved in doing all that code crunching in near real time and the integration with various back ends and plugins that causes the lag.
I have used many a native IDE in my time and they’ve all been pretty horrid, and to me Intellij is probably the best of them. At this scale of complexity I think the tightly structured and predictable environment provided by Java actual helps performance as it’s easier to maintain and design a cohesive scalable application.
When trying CLion on the exact same projects everything is just so much slower with no major value-add, like, even opening UI menus feels sluggish. And let's not even talk about typing text, I feel like I'm fighting my keyboard whenever I try to use it. (My computer is an Intel 6900k with 64 GB of RAM to give a point of reference)