It's how you raise your kids. It's not how everyone raised their kids, and we only pretend we can solve everything with dialog and ignore the heritage of violence at our own peril. Putin outright said he was sick of the west talking endlessly. He also said there was no reason for the world to exist without Russia and himself as the leader of it. The more post-violence a civilization gets, the more it's prone to total shock when confronted with barbarism and violence. If we survive this, it's important that the millennials generation experienced it. It will hold off our own collapse into nihilistic defeatism for another generation or two.