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Re:Cuffed – A dating app with only one match at a time by MonaroVXR on Friday February 18, 2022 @10:55PM (#30394295)
I'm not sure (obviously) about making myself interesting. Because it's difficult with what I do.

But my guess... There's a disconnect between what the woman expect from me and what I do.

Further more I'm either a sports guy or a nerd. Not both, because that doesn't exists in their world yet.

(I have redacted a lot of things, but it's kinda difficult for me, I'm not talking about getting a match.) Hope I don't get downvoted.

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Re:Cuffed – A dating app with only one match at a time by judahmeek on Saturday February 19, 2022 @12:36AM (#30394684)
You totally deserve to get downvoted though.

You seem to be claiming that most women stereotype you (& poorly at that. What is this "their world" B.S.?) & that being interested depends on your job and/or hobbies.

That's bullshit.

Both my job & hobbies are boring & stereotypical, but I compensate for that by being interesting in the way I communicate (like actually listening to the woman I'm speaking with) & what I choose to discuss (hint: not my job or hobbies. Probably her job and/or hobbies/interests instead).

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Re:Cuffed – A dating app with only one match at a time by MonaroVXR on Tuesday February 22, 2022 @07:44AM (#30427232)
No, not really I guess? I don't claim anything. (not that I am aware off, also I'm fine.)
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