If you freelance you are now just going to have to obey the client. If you start a start up, you have to please and obey VCs. I would recommend you finish school while trying to figure out your strong emotions about perfection, feeling special/meaningful, your parents, and authority because you can't escape those through any career decision. You sound like you care a lot and will have a lot to offer the world no matter what you do during working hours as an adult