That's a reasonable position, and I think a good conclusion to a constructive debate.

Whether it's unfair to single out SQL Server -- I don't think it is. SQL Server is one of the foundations of modern IT infrastructure, and it should be held to the highest standard. This is clearly a chink in the armor, and Microsoft seems to be aware of it.

Thanks to your pushback, I have refined my argument and will publish a significantly revised version of it on SQL Server Central (https://www.sqlservercentral.com/) on March 2. There is a preview at https://www.galliumdata.com/articles/can-we-please-stop-send... in case you're curious.

I respect your expertise, and I appreciate your civility. Thank you.