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Re:Love is biological bribery? by einpoklum on Wednesday February 16, 2022 @12:21PM (#30362716)
> Even without the social contract. First time I held someone in my arms I had visions of life long companionship

I would assume you were brought up in a modern cultural environment. That means your view of the world, your values, your expectations, your fantasies - are shaped by that upbringing.

So, your feelings are not good evidence that this is "programmed deep down inside of us".

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Re:Love is biological bribery? by throwaheyy on Wednesday February 16, 2022 @12:52PM (#30363201)
Are you claiming that a desire for companionship with another human being is purely a modern social construct?

That seems a … bizarre opinion. Until industrialization, human relationships were directly tied to survival.

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Re:Love is biological bribery? by einpoklum on Wednesday February 16, 2022 @03:24PM (#30365209)
I claimed no such thing...

And, in fact you're making the point even more strongly, in that you seem to identify lifelong, formal, monogamous pairing with the potential for human companionship.

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