Re:If you’re so smart, why aren’t you happy?
by keiferski on Saturday February 12, 2022 @05:27PM
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I’ve always thought the search for happiness is framed incorrectly from the start. Happiness is a short term emotional state. It comes from essentially mundane activities (more specifically, your mental reaction to them) and isn’t the consequence of a larger vision or long-term project in the way “being wealthy” is. Being happy is more like feeling full after eating a meal; while you can structure your life in such a way that you eat well on a regular basis, it’s the eating that makes you feel full, not the long-term plan of always having good food around.
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Re:If you’re so smart, why aren’t you happy?
by pingeroo on Saturday February 12, 2022 @06:45PM
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I wouldn't say it's a short term state. At least personally, I can pause at any point in the day and think "am I happy", to which the answer is usually yes.
Of course there are peaks and valleys, which as you described, are usually short bursts of emotion — like when you listen to your favorite song or see your best friend. But I think happiness also exists at a more baseline level when you are just... content in being.