My mom gave birth to me and raised me, and I was a pain in the ass plenty of times. If she wants me to fix her iPad, I'm gonna fix the lady's iPad. It's not my favorite thing in the world to be doing, but she took care of me as a baby. I'm not going to begrudge her that.

I do favors for my friends and family, and vice versa: they help me, and I help them. That doesn't mean I can't dread them going to great lengths to make it harder for me to do so.