Re:Ask HN: Burned out SaaS founder: how to go minimal
by hutzlibu on Saturday February 05, 2022 @06:13PM
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"I don't think it is her. I think it is me"
A marriage/family is a system, where it is seldom helpful to just point fingers and assign blame to one party.
So I think it is you both. You both have a problem and the fights over upgrades in the house are probably just surrogates for something different. Couples therapy is a thing, but so is a real vaccation, that can have the same result.
But maybe you also just need a vacation alone. To meet new people.
A marriage/family is a system, where it is seldom helpful to just point fingers and assign blame to one party.
So I think it is you both. You both have a problem and the fights over upgrades in the house are probably just surrogates for something different. Couples therapy is a thing, but so is a real vaccation, that can have the same result.
But maybe you also just need a vacation alone. To meet new people.