Re:Red Light Green Light
by KronisLV on Tuesday February 01, 2022 @05:34AM
(#30160793)
> The first time I ask, people ignore it and/or don't understand it.
What if this also happens the second, third and Nth time you try?
> The second time I ask, people get uncomfortable because generally they haven't thought about what they mean to that level of detail, and they try to weasel out of it.
Or maybe people decide to stay here, believing their subjective views to be good enough answer for such a question. Then what?
Re:Red Light Green Light
by kqr on Tuesday February 01, 2022 @12:35PM
(#30166081)
This is where it has paid for me to practise interpersona skills. Once I'm outside of the common situations every situation is unique and I have no general advice.
What if this also happens the second, third and Nth time you try?
> The second time I ask, people get uncomfortable because generally they haven't thought about what they mean to that level of detail, and they try to weasel out of it.
Or maybe people decide to stay here, believing their subjective views to be good enough answer for such a question. Then what?