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Re:Ask HN: At a peak of my dev career, I hate my life by jseban on Sunday January 30, 2022 @05:58AM (#30135806)
It's not about looks, it's about social skills. Can someone be friendly, make friends, make you feel good. Or are they awkward, unpleasant and weird.
Re:Ask HN: At a peak of my dev career, I hate my life by tarsinge on Sunday January 30, 2022 @07:39AM (#30136643)
Social skills are a large set. Being introvert/shy and awkward in large gatherings doesn’t mean you can’t be a good friend. That stereotype of geeks all being “asocial assholes on the spectrum” belongs to the previous century, I don’t know, maybe watch a few YouTube D&D games to update your views.