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Re:When my wife developed Alzheimer’s, the story of our marr... by JohnWhigham on Wednesday January 19, 2022 @10:52AM (#29995204)
Bitter divorcees probably. Having a marriage like that is a luxury though. Let's be honest: marriage is not the same as it was 40-80 years ago, and that's because society is not the same it was. Long term commitment to your spouse seems to be an idea left to the past now.
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Re:When my wife developed Alzheimer’s, the story of our marr... by SketchySeaBeast on Wednesday January 19, 2022 @11:27AM (#29995774)
"Long term commitment" isn't a luxury though, it's dedicated effort on the part of both spouses.
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Re:When my wife developed Alzheimer’s, the story of our marr... by sam0x17 on Wednesday January 19, 2022 @11:53AM (#29996206)
OP's economic argument is pretty sound. 40-50 years ago you could buy a new house, get a solid blue collar job with a pension, and watch your house 5x in value over the next 50 years. Makes it very, very easy to settle down with someone and start a family.

In today's economy, even for the relatively well-off, home ownership is essentially a pipe-dream and it is much harder to put down roots of any kind.

The second the marriage becomes hard, it's a lot easier to break a lease than it is to break a mortgage.

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