Re:Ask HN: Why doesn't YC list compensation for their own op...
by fattegourmet on Wednesday December 29, 2021 @04:13AM
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Do you feel that salary negotiations are adversarial?
For context: I realize that one-off negotiations (buying a car at a dealership) are strictly adversarial, but negotiations in ongoing relationships (employment) benefit more from sharing information on what you want and why.
For example, you tell the other side that you need 10K extra for planned babysitting expenses and they offer you less, but add paid time off to care for your own child.
Re:Ask HN: Why doesn't YC list compensation for their own op...
by hirako2000 on Saturday January 01, 2022 @07:42AM
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I think employment benefits negociations are less adversarial than at the car dealers. Because as you said one off vs to establish a long term relationship obviously leads to different optimal outcome from both sides. It is adversarial non the less and has the same patterns: information disymetry, personal gains and complex dynamics involving other stakeholders with constraints on both sides.
Re:Ask HN: Why doesn't YC list compensation for their own op...
by KptMarchewa on Wednesday December 29, 2021 @09:27AM
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I think basing what should you get basing on your needs, rather than on your worth is a basic mistake.
with that in mind, and the following rule is a basic negociation principle: Information gives an edge.
So if you put down your expectation, or worse provide your current compensation, you are giving away critical information to let the other side know pretty much all you know, which one can roughly derive what you would accept or reject. and the other side will either not give an offer at all (if your expectations are way off higher than budget) or will offer the minimum to get away with.
tldr: trusting potential opponents by telling them what they kindly ask is naive.