And they impact you even if you are "married with children"

One of my son's friends fell under the spell of an incel preacher who goes as "Wheat Waffles". He refuses to hang out with my son because my son is taller and more handsome and thus inevitably "mogs" him.

Waffles is running a pernicious cult complete with a catechism and what I saw looks a lot like Scientology disconnection.